Episode 465

Escape From Germany With Oksana Fajardo

Oksana Fajardo is a coach living in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico, helping people leave unhealthy relationships and feel secure in themselves.

To get there, she had to leave a toxic relationship herself, realizing the nature of the relationship, studying various aspects of personal development, and applying them in her own life.

She discovered that she had an anxious attachment style, and her marriage was based on a kind of love addiction or addiction to fantasy – always trying to believe that the relationship was something more or different than it was.

Eventually she left the marriage, and around that time, the German government ordered citizens to go into lockdown. That meant she couldn’t see her friends, let alone make new friends, which again presented an ordeal, and opened a door for personal growth.

She started researching again, finding a lot of tools to overcome limiting beliefs and other aspects of herself. Finally, despite all of the uncertainty and misinformation, she decided to leave Germany and come to Mexico, where she found freedom.